Where does the bed go? That's the A-Number One question I hear from clients who want to feng shui their bedrooms. Good question but-- trickier than it sounds.
Feng shui says:
- The bed should be in the "command position," kitty-corner from the door
- There should be access to the bed from either side (i.e., the bed is not pushed against one wall)
- It should not be under a beam
- It should not be in front of a window
- It should not be facing a bathroom
- The bed should have a solid headboard (not slatted)
- the footboard (if there is one) should not be higher than the mattress
Lotsa rules. Yes, there are good reasons for these guidelines. Unfortunately, physical constraints posed by the actual floor plans of contemporary houses and apartments make it hard to follow all the recommendations. One wants the effects of good chi flow to support health and relationships but one may be stymied by room size, intrusions or extrusions of bathrooms, walk-in closets, awkwardly placed windows or electrical and cable plugs. (One reason people hire me. . . ;-))
The bed position is both the starting point and the key to success. Architect Vincent M. Smith writes: "As strange as it may sound, every couple I have know who later divorced or had a very difficult marriage had a major problem in the Feng Shui of their bedroom. In most instances, it has been the location of the bed."
Here are the best bed positions:
1st preferred:

Here the bed is in the "command position," facing the door and having the widest view of the room. It's a great place for a bed, but the position also creates a new challenge. To wit: it creates triangular spaces behind the headboard and on either side of the bed. So by positioning the bed correctly, you are violating the rule about having a solid surface behind the headboard. It's a problem because you don't want this corner to fill up with stagnant chi (not to mention dust bunnies). But there are a lot of ways to compensate and balance out this problem. One solution is to place an uplamp on the floor and hang a delicate mobile (e.g., bamboo fish) from the ceiling. Short round stools may serve well as nightstands on either side of the bed.
2nd preferred:
The bed faces the door but is not in the "command position." This is still considered a good position for the feng shui of a bedroom. You should be aware,though, that the side of the bed with the shortest pathway to the door is considered the "doorkeeper" position. The person who sleeps on this side may feel more responsibility for the family. To compensate for this inequality, increase a sense of balance, and solidify the relationship, make sure that the bed has a single, solid headboard and nightstands on either side.
3rd preferred:
Similar to the number 2 position, this placement gives a direct view of the door but not the widest view of the room. Also, one side of the bed has less space around it than the other does. This can lead to inequality in the relationship and additional feng shui remedies should be employed to prevent disharmony.
Here is the
worst place for your bed:
Notice that the bed directly faces the bedroom door. This is referred to as the "corpse position," in China. The equivalent in English would be to isay the occupant is leaving the premises "feet first." Of course, you also wouldn't want to have one side of the bed pushed up against the wall as in this drawing, but that is a secondary issue. Even if the door were in the center of the opposite wall, positioning the bed in the corpse position is bad feng shui. It will make the person feel vulnerable and uneasy, negatively affecting sleep and rest patterns.
That covers some of the basics for bed positioning in feng shui. If you want to read more, I recommend, SantoPietro's
Feng Shui: Harmony by Design
and Smith and Lyons'
Feng Shui: A Practical Guide for Architects and Designers
. Both these books (and others) are available at the
Lake Mountain Annex Bookstore.
The next post in this series will be about using color and texture to enhance your bedroom's positive feng shui.
Good chi, everyone!